Another week, another change

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Another twist, another turn in our relationship.  One thing that was mentioned in passing was my girl’s continued desire to remain dominant in one form or another, just not with me.  Now that she has a poly family as well as me (though I’m not involved with them, nor have I met them yet) she’s expressed interest in cultivating as well as exploring a D/s relationship with the male of the couple.  He apparently is switchy and defers to my girl, so they’re interested in going the route of Domme/male sub but required my permission to do so.

Which I gave.  Due to ongoing financial constraints, my girl and I are unable to get together in the ‘more often’ plan that we had after our meeting back in June.  So instead of her stagnating, I think she needs something to keep her interest piqued.  Of course, it would be nice if I could do the same, but as always, I think it’s best to not give into that temptation, just sate myself with my imagination, online smut and other forms of debauchery, just not corporeal ones.  As the Wicked Witch of the West said “I’ll bide my time…”

I hope it works out for them both.  It’ll be interesting to see how it all plays out.

3 thoughts on “Another week, another change

  1. Interesting turn of events. Will you be mentoring her in her dominant progression? Since you have been in the lifestyle so long and would obviously have a good idea of her strengths and weaknesses already. Just curious ….

    I’m sorry the timing and finance hasn’t worked out as hoped. I can imagine how frustrating that is for you, especially to now have to sit back and ‘watch’ in a sense.

    1. Yes, it seems like every week or so, there’s a new wrinkle. But it keeps things interesting, I agree.

      I don’t believe that I’m going to be mentoring her in her exploration of this, since it’d be from a distance, and I don’t have a good feel for the male sub that she’s going to be playing with. She was dominant (pretty much exclusively as I understand) before we met, so she has a handle on her likes and dislikes, for the most part. OF course, if she asks for my assistance, it’s hers. We’ll see what happens.

      Yup, frustrating. I have zero desire in going out looking for another project, so I’ll just spin my wheels here, and hope for the best.

      Thanks for writing, you’ve been missed.

      1. Sorry for the absence my friend! I’ve been spending my time writing to get things out of my head and then keeping to myself.

        Been fighting to keep my head above water and my brain clear. I haven’t wanted to comment much on other’s work lest i leave some garbled garbage behind that I can’t clean up later! lol

        You know what happens with the internet, once its out there …..

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