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It’s been a year since we decided to switch things up. With you taking the bottom role and I being your Top.
We did manage to meet once, back in June. We’d planned for more meetings, but money and life got in the way.
It’s been an interesting journey so far. I think you can agree to that. Ups, downs, ins and outs. We’re working towards our goals, and we’re doing it together.
Happy Anniversary. 1 year down, many more to go.
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Doldrums (n.) – a state or period of inactivity, stagnation, or depression.
January is a generally a month where one regroups after the hectic ‘go-go-go’ of the Thanksgiving/Christmas season. It’s a New Year, but it’s also a time where things slow down considerably, before ramping up towards the holidays of Valentine’s Day, and then Easter. I’ve always equated it to the term above, remembering about when I learned of the other definition of the word. IE: an equatorial region of the Atlantic Ocean with calms, sudden storms, and light unpredictable winds.
It’s more of the ‘light unpredictable winds’ I’m referring to than anything else. How to keep yourself motivated, when everything around you is stagnant. It’s a difficult time of year to create change, like many people attempt to do, with their resolutions of this, that and the other thing. Generally, I’ve given up on making New Year resolutions, because it ends up being a wasted effort, since the desire to ‘change’ doesn’t tend to stay in the forefront of my brain for more than a couple of weeks, at best.
Change is difficult under any circumstances, to be sure. But forcing the issue on yourself doesn’t make it any easier. Things like weight loss, like quitting drinking, or smoking, or some other habit has to be done when you desire to do it, not on some schedule, either self-imposed, or due to peer pressure. The argument ‘Well, everyone else is doing it‘ doesn’t work any better as you get older, than it did when you were younger. The old argument ‘if everyone else jumped off the Brooklyn Bridge, would you as well?‘ definitely applies.
Here we are, 2019. Hopefully it will be a good year. There’s always that possibility. Time will tell, of course. Should be interesting if nothing else.